Coed of the Week
Name: Jessica Michalzen
School: Florida State University
Major: Biological Sciences/Pre-Med
Pre-med must keep you very busy.
Definitely, as does my job as a Hooters bartender.
Are you able to find time to party?
Typically I'm in school all day until 4, then at work until midnight. So I'm pretty boring!
Where do you find time to meet guys?
At work, if I like someone, I'll write my number on his tab.
What's the way to your heart?
Through my stomach. I love it when a man cooks for me!
Today's Lesson: My Girlfriend Wants to Pop My Cherry
My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year. We are both sophomores in college. Being sort of old-fashioned, I don't believe in premarital sex. For the past three months, she has been trying to push me into it. Last week I overheard her talking with a friend and got the impression she may start looking elsewhere for sexual fulfillment. I don't want to lose her, but I don't want to compromise my values, either. What should I do?—N.S., Indianapolis, Indiana
Before your girlfriend leaves, reconsider why you wish to remain a virgin until you're married. Sometimes sex can teach you lessons about yourself that can help strengthen a relationship. Other times it keeps people in bad relationships from moving on. While many people believe sex should be part of only a committed relationship such as marriage, others embrace chastity because they have deep-seated fears of the alternative. Where does the Advisor stand? We believe in great sex. If you sleep with your girlfriend to keep her from leaving, it won't be great sex. And she'll leave anyway.
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