Loss of sex drive in men: Natural with aging?

My 51-year-old husband recently told me that he's lost the desire to have sex. He said it's normal for men his age to lose their sex drive. Is this true?

- Linda / No state given

Answer

It's natural for men to notice a gradual decline in sex drive as they age. The degree of this decline varies with the individual. However, an abrupt loss of sex drive at the relatively young age of 51 isn't normal. Most men still maintain some sexual interest well into their 60s and 70s.

For men, the most likely treatable cause of loss of sex drive is depression. Less commonly, loss of sex drive may be related to stress, a medication side effect or a decrease in male sex hormones due to an endocrine disorder.

Encourage your husband to talk to his doctor. A medical evaluation by a family practitioner, internist or urologist can help determine the cause of decreased sex drive. Treatment of the underlying problem may help.

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